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First Generation
Carolina will welcome one of its largest-ever freshman classes this month, and some of them will be first-generation college students, the first in their families to pursue an education beyond high school.
President Harris Pastides can relate—he was the first in his immediate family to go to college.
“We lived in Queens and didn’t own a car—didn’t need one with the transportation system there—so my parents rented a car to take me up to Albany [State University of New York at Albany], a 155-mile drive. They brought my sister and her husband along, so there was almost no room for my luggage and tennis racket.
“My parents had never seen anyone off to college, so it was a different transition than, say, for parents whose third child was going to college. No one in the car had ever attended college—they didn’t know what to expect, and neither did I.
“They saw my dorm room and met my roommate, a young man from a rural part of upstate New York. When we had a few private moments together, they wondered aloud how the two of us would get along—me from the city and him from the country. As it turned out, Mark Romano and I became good friends: We still keep in touch all these years later.
“My most poignant memory from that day was my parents’ departure. We were all standing in front of Alden Hall, and it was a bittersweet moment. My mother was full of tears. It was a sad moment for her, but not for me. I had already begun the transition to college life and was looking forward to a party that night.”
President Pastides later earned a master’s of public health and a Ph.D. in epidemiology from Yale University in New Haven, Conn.—about 80 miles closer to home. |